“The Second Time Around” was written when I was pregnant with our second little guy – our now middle child.
As I thought ahead to Baby #2, there were some things I did the same, but there were also some things I did differently.
The second time around…
I will NOT read any books to help me prepare. Last time, doing so only resulted in worry and stress. I hereby send out a decree that all copies of “Baby Wise” shall be burned – wait….I mean ripped to shreds and then burned. (Following my gut has proven to be the best approach!)
I WILL submit the same birth plan – so thankful for a hospital that attempts to honor our wishes as much as possible – even when things go craaazzzy in the delivery room!
I will NOT let it bother me when the prenatal doctors smile sweetly and say, “You are measuring a little bit ahead of schedule. Let’s not forget to eat plenty of whole grains.” Ugh! (By the way, male doctors never talked to me like that – Only the female doctors who supposedly only gained 3.8 lbs. with each of their pregnancies. Yes, I am still bitter.) Eat.more.pancakes.
I WILL invite my mom to join us in the delivery room again ~ I loved having her share in those moments – However, this time, I plan to ask her to silence her cell phone!
I will NOT ask for a Popsicle after my contractions start. (What was I thinking?! What were the nurses thinking?! I’ll spare you the details.)
I WILL stick to our limited visitors policy. We only allowed our parents to visit in the room and at home following our delivery, and it was such a special time for our family. With all of them being long-distance grandparents, it was a great bonding experience!
(after the baby comes)…
I will NOT feel bad about using the hospital nursery. In fact, I plan to ask if they accept 2 year-olds and snoring husbands – and if we can stay for 30 days.
I WILL order even more pancakes and blueberry muffins from the hospital cafeteria. I have earned them and I have more than paid for them.(Come to think of it, I will remove the plumbing fixtures from the birthing room’s bathroom. I feel I have more than paid for those as well. Note to self: Bring an extra [empty] suitcase.)
I will NOT allow myself to be strangled in the night by the wrong, wrong, wrong nursing bra. I will budget now to spend $1,789.24 [if necessary] to have only the most comfortable of nursing bras from the start.
I WILL panic [upon our arrival home] because I will realize that this second child is nothing like the first. Please send cards and ready-made meals. Thank You.
I will NOT be so eager to get back into my pre-pregnancy jeans. Maternity jeans are far more comfortable.
I WILL have more freezer meals prepared for our return home. Last time around, I had about six meals ready to go. This time around, I will have six years’ worth prepared. We are currently shopping for a deep freeze…maybe we need to buy two.
What was it like for you the second…or third…or fourth…or fifth time around the baby block?
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